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職場(chǎng)萬人迷的11個(gè)特點(diǎn)(2)
6.They recognize the difference between fact and opinion.
6. 能夠區(qū)別事實(shí)與觀點(diǎn)的差異。
Irresistible people handle controversial topics and touchy subjects with grace and poise. They don’t shrink from sharing their opinions, but they make it clear that they’re opinions, not facts. Whether discussing global warming, politics, vaccine schedules, or GMO foods, irresistible people recognize that many people who are just as intelligent as they are see things differently.
萬人迷能夠優(yōu)雅平靜地處理一切紛爭(zhēng)與敏感話題。他們不吝分享自己的觀點(diǎn)，但他們會(huì)強(qiáng)調(diào)這些都只是觀點(diǎn)，而不是事實(shí)。無論談?wù)摰脑掝}是氣候變暖，國(guó)家政治，還是疫苗接種程序，或者是轉(zhuǎn)基因食品，萬人迷都能認(rèn)清智力水平相當(dāng)?shù)娜硕加懈髯圆煌挠^點(diǎn)的事實(shí)。
7.They are authentic.
7. 他們很真誠(chéng)。
Irresistible people are who they are. Nobody has to burn up energy or brainpower trying to guess their agenda or predict what they’ll do next. They do this because they know that no one likes a fake.
萬人迷就是他們自己。別人不需要費(fèi)盡心思去揣測(cè)他們接下來的計(jì)劃是什么。他們這么真實(shí)，是因?yàn)樗麄冎罌]有人喜歡虛偽的人。
People gravitate toward authentic individuals because they know they can trust them. It’s easy to resist someone when you don’t know who they really are and how they really feel.
人們都受真誠(chéng)的人吸引，那是因?yàn)樗麄冎肋@些人值得信任。當(dāng)你無法真正地認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，也無法感受他的真實(shí)所想的時(shí)候，你很難與他交往。
8.They have integrity.
8. 他們都言行一致。
People with high integrity are irresistible because they walk their talk, plain and simple. Integrity is a simple concept but a difficult thing to practice. To demonstrate integrity every day, irresistible people follow through, they avoid talking bad about other people, and they do the right thing, even when it hurts.
誠(chéng)實(shí)正直的人常常都很受歡迎，那是因?yàn)樗麄兡軌蚵男谐兄Z，踏實(shí)，簡(jiǎn)單。言行一致說起來很簡(jiǎn)單，但實(shí)踐起來很難。萬人迷每天都保持言行一致，避免說別人的壞話，甚至在造成傷害時(shí)也能很好地處理。
9.They smile.
9. 保持笑容。
People naturally (and unconsciously) mirror the body language of the person they’re talking to. If you want people to find you irresistible, smile at them during conversations and they will unconsciously return the favor and feel good as a result.
人們常常會(huì)自然地(和無意地)反思對(duì)方交談時(shí)的肢體語言。如果你想給吸引他人，那么在交談的時(shí)候多微笑，然后對(duì)方就會(huì)無意識(shí)地給你相應(yīng)的反饋并且感覺良好。
10.They make an effort to look their best (just not too much of an effort).
10.適度保持自己的最佳狀態(tài)。
There’s a massive difference between being presentable and being vain. Irresistible people understand that making an effort to look your best is comparable to cleaning your house before company comes—it’s a sign of respect for others. But once they’ve made themselves presentable, they stop thinking about it.
光潔體面與奢華虛榮之間的差別是非常大的。萬人迷能夠清楚認(rèn)識(shí)，花點(diǎn)心思保持最佳狀態(tài)就好比同事到家做客前的大掃除——都是對(duì)他人的尊重。不過一旦他們形成這種光彩照人的習(xí)慣，他們就不必再花費(fèi)心思在這上面了。
11.They find reasons to love life.
11. 尋找生活的樂趣，熱愛生活。
Irresistible people are positive and passionate. They’re never bored, because they see life as an amazing adventure and approach it with a joy that other people want to be a part of.
萬人迷都是積極樂觀，充滿激情的。他們永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)感到疲憊，因?yàn)樗麄儼焉町?dāng)作一次奇妙的冒險(xiǎn)旅程，并帶著快樂去探索，感染身邊的人，以致別人也想成為其中的一員。
It’s not that irresistible people don’t have problems—even big ones—but they approach problems as temporary obstacles, not inescapable fate. When things go wrong, they remind themselves that a bad day is just one day, and they keep hope that tomorrow or next week or next month will be better.
然而萬人迷并不是沒有煩惱的，甚至是很嚴(yán)重的煩惱，但是他們把這些煩惱當(dāng)作暫時(shí)性的障礙，而不是不可擺脫的命運(yùn)。當(dāng)事情亂了套，他們會(huì)提醒自己，糟糕的一天也只是一天而已，他們?nèi)匀粫?huì)對(duì)明天或下周，或下個(gè)月充滿希望，相信一切會(huì)好起來。
Bringing it all together.
小結(jié)
Irresistible people did not have fairy godmothers hovering over their cribs. They’ve simply perfected certain appealing qualities and habits that anyone can adopt as their own.They think about other people more than they think about themselves, and they make other people feel liked, respected, understood, and seen. Just remember: the more you focus on others, the more irresistible you’ll be.
萬人迷沒有仙女教母為他們搖搖藍(lán)，他們僅僅是完善了某些吸引人的特質(zhì)和習(xí)慣，其實(shí)每個(gè)人都可以借鑒。他們?cè)诤跛硕嘤谠诤踝约海麄兣ψ屗烁惺艿较矏�，尊重，理解和關(guān)注。只需要記�。耗阍搅粢馑�，你就越有魅力。
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