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趣味英語(yǔ)失戀的正確打開(kāi)方式
There are times when you'll find yourself left wondering where your relationship is going when in fact, it's been headed downhill ages ago (You were just so blinded that you didn't notice). Yes, you may not have been fortunate enough to know that the relationship has been over for him, but that doesn't mean that you'll wait for him to grow balls to call it quits to your face. Even if he doesn't, you can still get the closure you deserve in your own badass way. Here's how.
無(wú)數(shù)次地，你都想要知道你們的關(guān)系究竟卡在了哪里，然而實(shí)際上它在很久以前就已經(jīng)開(kāi)始走下坡路(只是你太過(guò)盲目對(duì)此視而不見(jiàn))。不幸的是，你很可能都不知道這段感情對(duì)他而言早已結(jié)束，但這并不意味著你要等他當(dāng)面跟你說(shuō)分手。即使他不說(shuō)出來(lái)，你仍舊可以通過(guò)自己的方法結(jié)束這段感情。以下是具體方法：
Take it to social media.
在社交媒體上公布
You don't necessarily have to broadcast the details of your unfortunate love story but you can post something about how your relationship is done and that your plans only revolve around enjoying your newfound life as a single lady. Since your friends and loved-ones will likely read your status, you'll be accountable and you'll be reminded of how you've ended things yourself, how there's no turning back, and how there's no getting back together, like ever.
你不用公布這段戀情的每一個(gè)細(xì)節(jié)，但你可以說(shuō)說(shuō)這段感情是如何結(jié)束的，以及圍繞著你的單身新生活談?wù)勀愕挠?jì)劃。在你的朋友和關(guān)心你的人看到你的狀態(tài)后，你可以跟他們解釋?zhuān)⑻嵝炎约耗闶侨绾斡H手結(jié)束這一切的，沒(méi)有任何回旋余地。
Write your heart out.
把你的心聲寫(xiě)出來(lái)
Get a clean sheet of paper and write everything you have inside your tattered soul. Write until your tears fall, until you run out of words. Then fold the paper and store it somewhere you won't remember putting it. It's not going to make you feel less broken but who cares? You'd feel so much better letting out all of the pent up bitterness and anger inside of you. Or you can write an open letter to that guy you've never gotten closure with and inspire other women who are going through the same situation as yours along the way.
找一張干凈的紙，將你那破碎的心里的一切都傾吐出來(lái)。 一直寫(xiě)，寫(xiě)到你泣不成聲，寫(xiě)到再也沒(méi)有詞可以用來(lái)形容你的感受。然后，將這張紙折起來(lái)，并把它放在一個(gè)你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)想起的地方。雖然你依舊會(huì)心碎，但是沒(méi)關(guān)系。將你郁積多時(shí)的痛苦和憤怒發(fā)泄出來(lái)你會(huì)感覺(jué)好多了�；蛘撸憧梢越o那個(gè)人寫(xiě)一封公開(kāi)信，并激勵(lì)那些跟你遭遇相同的妹子走出悲傷。
Give in to weird rituals.
舉辦一些奇怪的儀式
It can be anything from finishing a half-marathon while listening to all of the songs you've used to listen together or going through all the belongings he left in your apartment, burning them, and throwing the ashes in the nearest beach where you live. Just have whatever weird, crazy, but symbolic ceremony that you think you needed so you can finally say goodbye to him and the painful memories you had in the past.
你可以聽(tīng)著自己以前經(jīng)常聽(tīng)的歌曲去跑一個(gè)半程馬拉松，或者將他留在你公寓的物品一一找出，然后燒掉，并把它們的“骨灰”灑在你家最近的沙灘上。盡情地辦一些怪異瘋狂的但是具有象征性的儀式吧，因?yàn)槟阈枰ㄟ^(guò)它們來(lái)忘記這個(gè)人，以及過(guò)去那痛苦的回憶。
Create new memories without him.
制造一些新回憶
Go back to that coffee shop where you used to hang or that beach where you used to swim and enjoy each other's company. But this time, go there and make new memories with nobody but yourself. It may sting a bit but it will prevent you from associating things and places to him (and you'll end up reclaiming your freedom in the process).
回到你過(guò)去經(jīng)常逗留的咖啡廳或者過(guò)去經(jīng)常和他一起相伴游泳嬉戲的海灘，但是這次，嘗試著制造一些只屬于自己的回憶。這個(gè)過(guò)程或許會(huì)讓你感到些許心痛，但卻可以防止你將過(guò)去的一切和他聯(lián)系起來(lái)。(經(jīng)過(guò)這個(gè)步驟之后，你會(huì)感到重獲自由)
Focus on getting yourself back together.
努力做回真實(shí)的自己
A man may have broke you but you can be whole on your own. Of course, you'd want a boyfriend again soon but that doesn't mean that you'd settle for less. Take your time so when you're ready for your forever relationship, it will finally be worth it.
這個(gè)人可能傷了你的心，但你仍可以靠自己獨(dú)立。當(dāng)然，你可能想著盡快再找一個(gè)男友，但這并不意味著你的擇友標(biāo)準(zhǔn)就要降低。慢慢來(lái)，當(dāng)你準(zhǔn)備好開(kāi)始一段長(zhǎng)期戀情了，會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)這是值得的。
Forgive yourself.
自我原諒
If you're someone who's absurdly harder to no one but yourself, this is going to be a tough challenge. But with time, your eyes will be opened and when you finally see and realize your worth, you'd be totally okay. That's even if the guy you once loved failed to see it.
如果你是那種對(duì)自己要求出奇地嚴(yán)格的人，這將是一個(gè)困難的挑戰(zhàn)。但隨著時(shí)間流逝，你終將會(huì)看開(kāi)，當(dāng)你最終發(fā)掘到自己的價(jià)值時(shí)，整個(gè)人會(huì)明朗很多。而這是那個(gè)你曾經(jīng)愛(ài)過(guò)的人所不曾察覺(jué)的。
Contact him.
聯(lián)系曾經(jīng)那個(gè)他
The chances may be really slim but be sure to exhaust all ways of telling him goodbye (phone, email, social media accounts). Tell him you're done and you're never waiting for him, ever. Don't wait for his reply but rather remove him totally from your life by blocking him and changing your phone number.
但是你要利用各種方式跟他說(shuō)拜拜，無(wú)論是電話(huà)，郵件還是社交媒體。告訴他你已經(jīng)放下了他并且再也不會(huì)等他回心轉(zhuǎn)意。不要等待他的回復(fù)，相反，你還要將他屏蔽或者更換手機(jī)號(hào)，以此將他從你的生活中徹底抹去。
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